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I've spent the second half of my life in two separate NYC area homes. Because I was no longer moving around, I've managed to include several good people in my life. My friendships cover the span of 30 years to the most recent of 4 years.
We have sat over many cups of coffee and tea, and, of course, glasses of wine, and shared desserts. All those hours together we spoke about nothing to deep concerns or issues that plagued our well-being. That's what you do when you build a friendship.
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During those hours, we gathered impressions about each other, what we liked, how sensitive we were, topics that were not to be discussed, as well as the core goodness of each of us. We each created our beliefs around the other person and we have depended on each of us being the same. Of course, we did want them to change some things, but generally, we thought we knew each other and there wasn't anything new to find out.
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I recognize in that moment that I wasn't listening to her. I was interjecting my opinion regarding her thoughts...without her request. She was ok with my advice, but I wasn't anymore. Another friend said all we really want [url=http://www.renaissancedestoiles.fr]louboutin[/url] in life is to truly be listened to and accepted by another person. Have you felt truly listened to?
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In what ways can you tell that someone is listening to you?
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