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Posted: Tue 14:10, 13 Aug 2013 Post subject: 80 four days after the couple licensing licensing |
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's eyes the most representative of three generations: 50, 70, 80, after the investigation. "Whole life" day license and four days after the divorce Hangzhou increasing number of divorces for seven consecutive years, 80 couples into a "disaster area" phenomenon Luo Yi (born in 1986) and Xu Bing (born 1987) is a pair of love for 2 years 80 young lovers. Both are Yuhang people, his family good,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but also have only one child. Although by the end of 2012 they will do a wedding, but in order to make a good head, stick until January 4, 2013, before braving the snow, go to the marriage registration office queues Yuhang picking up red books. But did not think licensing is less than 5 days, 8 January, they again entered the marriage registration office of Yuhang. Good luck did not give them a good marriage, this time, they intend to divorce. "The 7th night we dined together go for a walk, the way going home some fruit I eat apples, but he wanted to eat bananas, bananas can not have to buy. Love when sweet, I did not expect was registered three days, they face the. "Xu Bing strong personality full of grievances, in her opinion this is not a few apples thing, but Luo Yi does not consider their feelings. It also made her think of the 6th night, myself and her mother because life is trivial altercation, the Luo Yi did not hesitate to stand on the side of the mother. "Since he heard what the fuck, he also married his wife doing Away from the calculations!" Because admission to buy fruit at some things wrong, Luo Yi has said nothing, but Xu Bing to spearhead his mother, he could not resist: "My mother with me to support me, I do not listen to her listen to whom from the off!" 8 am, two men entered the black face Yuhang marriage registration office. "The family know you want to divorce you " Faced with marriage guidance division of the doubt,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they nonchalantly replied, "Why do you want to know the family Together the knot, incompatibility is from chanting." But in the end, in a fit of anger two young or in a marriage mentor's advice, agreed to go back and think about it. Affection in the world, but the election day (in 2012 12 and the 12th) after 80 married couples Chen Tong and Nina, but in this year's January 6 firmly decided to end a period of less than one month marriage. "Since moving in together, we almost every day for a variety of trivial quarrel, values and habits is too inconsistency." They said in unison statement: Now that you've realized that the marriage is wrong, and as early as possible a break, or After more painful. 50 after: repressed for decades and finally hope, relief Lao Dong Lu Qing plain dress, walked down the street looks no different from an ordinary couple. Into the marriage registration office, they look calm, they communicated very friendly, nothing like that to do divorce. "20 years of marriage, we had a falling out over 20 years." Lu Qing said that the early years, divorced in the eyes of others is a shameful thing, public pressure is particularly great. And the child is still small, have to consider her daughter's feelings, so although painful, they still have been struggling next. Daughter is getting married today, with the grandson. "We see the pain, she also advised us to divorce, and now the community a lot of tolerance for divorce." Lu Qing said, although already nearly 60 years, but they decided to end this painful marriage. "Since the marriage was a mistake, it had better be relieved each other in old age, a little bit of free space to each other." Divorce of two people to do very quickly, because everything has been agreed upon in the years of waiting clear. And from the married, the two people still leave as friends marriage registration office. "After all, there is a junior at,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], after the Chinese Lunar New Year we still get together over." 80: flash flash from the marriage of young people more and more under the Ministry of Civil Affairs statistics,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], from 2004 to 2011, China has eight consecutive divorce annual increase. The contrast in 2006 to 2011 in Hangzhou divorce rate data (followed by 1.6 ‰, 1.8 ‰, 2 ‰, 2.1 ‰, 2.2 ‰, 2.2 ‰), we found that six years, the divorce rate in the same ladder Hangzhou increasing state. Is marriage becoming sloppy yet It seems the marriage mentor, this is more of a battle to defend the quality of marriage. "50 After the divorce rate is very low,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but that does not mean that the high quality of their marriage." Early marriage guidance teacher Yang said he had done a test, 40 or so involved in test after 50 married persons, 70% -80% satisfied with their marriage. "We are just not for you to divorce." In many 70,80 teenager impression, this is the parents who catch-phrase. In the traditional ideas and concerns of families with children, although they are not satisfied with the quality of their marriage, but in family life drowned themselves in the "Tolerance" and bitter to endure a lifetime. For them, now ruminating after divorce is a rational way. "I found from the beginning after 70 women filed for divorce increasing proportion." Marriage guidance teacher Li Liqin said that with the socio-economic and cultural development and the living environment changes, women gradually reduce the degree of attachment to marriage, marriage and greater economic independence. Traditional family life for women required "tolerance" in their marriage in the gradual retreat. "Admittedly, in today's society the greater the temptation, but it also shows the quality of marriage after 60,70 have a more explicit requirements." For the moment the main force of 80 after divorce, marriage guidance teacher who believes that a lot of people impulsive divorce phenomenon exists. "They grew up under the care of elders in every possible way, they were concerned about the generation that live for themselves, compared to marriage, they are more like themselves." Li Liqin said that with the changes in the concept of marriage, after 80 marriage as community, want to pursue a win-win, the quality requirements of marriage, after more than 70, but they have little tolerance for marriage and your partner, it also allows the word divorce more easily hung in the mouth. "In different stages of society, the marriage will have their own very distinctive brand of the times, the processing nodes and methods of marriage are not the same." Li Liqin said, the pursuit of quality of marriage is a manifestation of social progress, but we must remind 80 After the divorce is not the pursuit of marital quality impulse the right way, they may suffer. "Matching refers to the individual personality, individual life and family status, personal life and values of the degree of recognition." Yang said at the beginning, individual character, including each other's mental state, if there is not yet weaned extreme personality or psychological, etc., are required to be carefully considered . The original family and personal life experiences will have an important impact on individuals. "Almost as much as possible choose the type of family, so that the couple's life and values will be more consistent." Yang said at the beginning, there have been experiments show that the attraction between the opposite sex only 1,000 days. In the subsequent running-in process, the smaller the difference between the two sides, the easier run-in, and easier to maintain freshness. Pursuit of marital quality is an improvement even more crucial to learn how to maintain the marriage marriage mentor Wu Min-depth review: 80 living in more affluent times the physical environment, and have only one child. They compared 50, 70 have a stronger sense of self,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], higher quality requirements for marriage, but tolerance decreased. Parents have been together since childhood spoiled, though married, but after a lot of 80 improper home, lack of family responsibility, many couples do not learn two people together to protect marriage. Meanwhile, flash flash from the marriage of young people more and more, the increase in the number of divorces has also become one of the reasons. 70: extramarital affairs and children's education into the disintegration of the fuse Huang and Liu Ping did not survive the seven-year itch. Liu Ping, an accountant, working nine to five,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], character Gu, Huang is a sales manager, body pick breadwinner plans. Son, 7 years old, lively and lovely. This is a happy one three. In September last year, the son of the elementary school, but on this issue the couple turned his face. "My baby son on this one, I have to let him receive the best childhood education." Liu Ping wanted his son to elementary school on the aristocracy, ten thousand dollars per semester tuition. And then stand at the gates of Huang elementary school, "at home also need a bigger house for sets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you need to save money, but is also convenient shuttle to go to school at home." Old loving couple fighting over this every day. The problem is also upgraded from elementary school to which to complain Liu Ping Huang nothing, no money. "Follow your bad luck, even the son suffer." Ultimately, this sentence makes Liu Ping Huang stormed away, marriage this draw period. Huang and Liu Ping with different Fang Hua Yang Min, 10 years of marriage and then end with a third party. Fang Hua business, while Yang Min is a civil servant. Three years ago, at a dinner party in China know little memory. Small memory young and beautiful, Fang Hua soon tempted played an underground conditions. Find clues after Yang Min filed for divorce without hesitation. Marriage mentor Li Liqin Comment: 70s educated women compared to traditional women gradually increased, economic and marriage and more independent. The status of women in society and the division of labor is more important, so when women in their baseline values are challenged or disagreements arise, easier than ever mentioned divorce. Marriage mentor Chuyang review - because traditional ideas and the relatively high degree of attachment to women, couples divorce after 50 army stood ratio is not high. Even personality clashes, the other having an affair,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the usual choice or "tolerance." But now with the improvement of social tolerance, economic dependence weakened them some people have begun to have the courage to end their marriage was not happy, and begin again. After the divorce, and 80 different impulses,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], their divorce is often deliberate, though they divorced when the atmosphere is very friendly and calm, but usually are bent to a divorce, almost no possibility of peace and.
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